Wise advice indeed.
The sooner a man learns "happy wife, happy life", the sooner he will be content in his marriage.
In the beginning of the marriage, most men (usually young) want to "assert their authority" and choose to challenge their wife on silly issues. So, we end up arguing, fighting or disagreeing (nice euphemism for fighting) over issues of "principle".
But guess what? She ALWAYS wins...and maybe that's not so bad. In my life, every issue that my wife and I disagreed on, she ended up being right in the end. It took me about 10 years to figure that out.
Now, with age, I have ended up realizing that the idea.."happy wife, happy life" is probably the most accurate statement ever made. I no longer disagree with my wife on things. Why bother? She will end up winning and deep down I have accepted, she is right anyway.
Once guys realize that they just need to capitulate on every issue, the sooner they will experience wedded bliss. I kid you not guys. Try it, it works.
Give in on every issue, give your wife whatever she wants. If she is happy, you will be happy and so will everyone around her.
Think about it....make her angry and you are having a not so great supper. (maybe none at all) Make her really angry and you are sleeping on the couch. Not much happening there....unless you have satellite and a box of tissue.
Like it or not guys, they have the power and they are way smarter than us at using it.
When women are happy, they are loving, giving, caring and alot of fun to be around. Happy is sexy...
When women are not happy, well...they scare me.
Now, if you'll excuse me I am going to ask my wife if I am allowed to publish this blog.
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