Monday, April 29, 2024
Lygenztia *678 (A mystery solved........) Friday April 26, 2024
The mystery of the Loge le Havre de Grace Masonic Lodge “Founder Medal”
Some time ago, I was given a masonic medal by an old friend that was found in her deceased fathers’ belongings. Her father’s name was Nick Pappas and he hailed from Shuniah Lodge 287, Thunder Bay, Ontario. She asked that I gather what information I could and knew that I would appreciate the artifact, being a Freemason myself. The medal belonged to J.E. Thompson of Port Arthur, Ontario. The “Founder” medal indicated “No. 4” and “Founded by Allied Military” and was dated 1916. Other than that, little was known about it.
My search was extremely fortunate to find an article an old edition of the Rifle and Apron, written by provided by Brother Lieutenant Joseph F. Curry. The article goes on to state:
"In World War I, a Masonic Lodge was established at Le Havre, France. Le Havre de Grace No. 4 was warranted under the "Grande Loge Nationale lndependante et Regulier pour la France et les Colonies Francaises." Seventy Masons were listed as founding members, representing Mother Lodges in England, Scotland, Ireland, Canada, Australia, India, Malta, Gibraltar, South Africa, and the United States.
"At the ceremony of consecration, on October 31, 1916, the following words were spoken by the Chaplain: "Surrounded as we are with an atmosphere charged with so much disruption, disunion, and discord, with lowering clouds of hate and strife, through which at present there appears to be but a faint light penetrating - a light which we hope is indicative of the future blaze of joy and happiness - we launch this ship of Peace and Harmony."
"Carleton Lodge No. 465 in Carp, Ontario eventually acquired the furnishings from Loge le Havre, where they are still in use today."
“where they are still in use today” was the link that I needed and had been searching for.
I then connected with W. Bro Blake Farmer, the Secretary of Carleton Lodge 465 in Carp, Ontario. He informed me that Carleton Lodge did indeed have the original furniture (altar, lesser lights, etc.) from Le Havre de Grace, France. It was not entirely clear how the items made it from France to Carp, but it was facilitated by the (then) Secretary, whose last name was “Thompson”. It is not clear at this time whether that Secretary is the same person as the brother’s name on the Founder medal i.e. “J.E. Thompson”.
The Founder medal bears a manufacturer stamp “Spencer and Co. Masonic manufacturers” (England). W. Bro. Farmer confirmed the furniture in their Lodge bears the same manufacturer stamp. In 1947, Toye Kenning acquired Spencer and Co.
In my communication with W. Bro. Farmer about the Founder medal I advised him I would be returning the medal to their Lodge. That way, it could accompany the other artifacts being kept at Carleton Lodge, where it rightfully belonged.
On Thursday April 25th, 2024, in the presence of Grand Master Hogeboom, I returned the Founders medal where it was finally re-united with Carleton Lodge and the remaining artifacts from Loge Le Havre, France.
Ergo the medal’s journey back, after a 108 year absence spanning two world wars, two continents, troop ships across the Atlantic, troop trains to Port Arthur, tales of battles fought, memories of comrades lost, several generations of safe keepers and many loving hands to finally ‘come home’ and be reunited with the other remaining artifacts of Loge Le Havre.
On this day in history, in 1968, the United States exploded beneath the Nevada desert a 1.3 megaton nuclear device called “Boxcar.”
Today is National Pretzel Day and on the Pastafarian Calendar it is Get Organized Day.
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Sunday, April 21, 2024
Lygenztia *677 (Cuba.....) April 21, 2024 ( a few days late)
As previously mentioned, I strive to publish once a week on Friday.
But, this Friday past I was in Cuba with a friend. He needed help to bring his dogs home. Which is another blog (or book) all on its own.
Cuba feels like going back in time. Classic cars, the architecture, antiquated power grid. Cattle, chickens, goats...just wandering around. With the chickens, I can never figure out how they keep track of who owns which chicken.
We get off to a "not good start" because we took a taxi to the wrong hotel. So, then we have to get another taxi to the correct hotel. But, it's not all bad! When we check in, the hotel clerk says "I have big suprise". Turns out we were upgraded to massive, beautiful 5 star rooms. Don't know how (yet) but we were.
We spent two days at the pool, doing cool guy stuff and we were also blessed with a lovely visit from a Cuban fellow, who is a friend of my friend. I could have listened to him for hours, his stories were so fascinating and he was so proud. Cubans have little, but they are proud, innovative and resilient. It turns out our Cuban friend works for the hotel chain, so it all comes together and makes sense. He set us up with the nice rooms.
It was blast, but three days/two nights were enough given we were two guys with no adult supervision. I made it home. But my liver? Well, I think I left that in Cuba.
The history of the Cuba Libre cocktail can be found here Cuba Libre
On this day in history, in 2016, American musician Prince—who created groundbreaking music that fused funk, rhythm and blues, rock and roll, and pop and was one of the biggest stars of the 1980s and '90s—died at age 57 from an accidental overdose of fentanyl, a powerful opioid.
Today is National Yellow Bat Day and on the Pastafarian Calendar it is Boring People Baiting Day.
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Friday, April 12, 2024
Lygenztia *676 (Whatcha doin'?.................) April 12, 2024
Why do we randomly think of someone? Are they thinking about you, too? Is it cosmic energy? Which synapses fire when you suddenly think to yourself 'Hey, wonder what Jimmy is up to?' And, why Jimmy? Why not Jane?
This often happens when drinking. (Don't tell me you have never random texted someone after you have had a few.) Sometimes, something reminds us of the person, like a story we share, or hear. What fascinates me the most is when there is no reminder, prompt or stimuli and someone just randomly pops into our brain.
Is there an old wive's tale for this phenomenon? What the hell is an old wive's tale, anyway?
Daniel Kahneman and Charles Duhigg have written some great books on how/why we think. They are written in such a way that the common person can understand them. They speak to this topic in an informed manner, unlike my troglodite philosophy...check them out.
Never know, one day you may randomly think of those authors, or me, or Jimmy. Maybe even Jane.
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On this day in history, in 1980, Canadian one-legged distance runner Terry Fox begins his "Marathon of Hope" attempt to cross the country at St. John's, Newfoundland.
Today is National French Fry Day and on the Pastafarian Calendar it's National Noodle day.
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Friday, April 5, 2024
Lygenztia *675 (Special...............) April 5, 2024
Back on New Year's Day, I resolved to post every friday. For the most part, I have held true. I don't make many resolutions, but when I do I try to keep them. Case in point, drink my coffee "black" only. Easy to follow and I kept that resolution.
At any rate, this topic grabbed me. Like a kitten grabs a ball of yarn.
As a precursor to this blog, I must go on the record. I loathe videos, tik-tok, youtube, etc. When friends/relatives send them, I just delete them and never watch. I lie and say I did, but I never watch them.
But, it appears, my hypocrisy knows no bounds. This morning I was in the hot tub and some videos popped up of people doing outrageous things. In one, guys on dirtbikes deliberately trespassed onto ptivate property just to irritate the landowner and then they harrassed him when he caught up. In another, some asshole slaps some random guy in the head at an outdoor cafe, then runs away. Funny? Nopes.
You know what would be funny? If the guys on the dirtbikes wiped out and broke their backs. That, would be funny. Or the guy that slapped the unsuspecting guy get's crushed by an 18-wheeler as he runs away. Now that would be hilarious.
As the saying goes, mess with the bull....
The fuck is wrong with people? Goddam videos.
At any rate, this topic grabbed me. Like a kitten grabs a ball of yarn.
As a precursor to this blog, I must go on the record. I loathe videos, tik-tok, youtube, etc. When friends/relatives send them, I just delete them and never watch. I lie and say I did, but I never watch them.
But, it appears, my hypocrisy knows no bounds. This morning I was in the hot tub and some videos popped up of people doing outrageous things. In one, guys on dirtbikes deliberately trespassed onto ptivate property just to irritate the landowner and then they harrassed him when he caught up. In another, some asshole slaps some random guy in the head at an outdoor cafe, then runs away. Funny? Nopes.
You know what would be funny? If the guys on the dirtbikes wiped out and broke their backs. That, would be funny. Or the guy that slapped the unsuspecting guy get's crushed by an 18-wheeler as he runs away. Now that would be hilarious.
As the saying goes, mess with the bull....
The fuck is wrong with people? Goddam videos.
Lygenztia *674 (We, the people...............) April 5, 2024
When I blog, I use USA statistics, unless the topic is very Canada specific.
Why? Because I have absolutely zero trust in the Canadian government.
I am not a conspiracy nut. But I can apply critical thinking and my common sense tells me you can't piss on my leg and tell me it's raining.
It's just such a sad state of affairs.
We have been lied to so much...COVID, SNC-Lavalin, ethics scandals, China influence/election meddling, the Ottawa trucker protest. It goes on and on and on. The saddest part, is that Canadian's have just accepted it. We take it, much like an abused child accepts their situation as "normal". I get it, politician's have always lied. All parties. But what we are experiencing in the modern age far eclipses any of that. State control of the media perpetuates, distributes and forces mass consumption of the lie. The lie is a well-run Canada sponsored machine.
And if you think the media is not controlled by the state, you are a fool. If you don't tow the line, you don't get the Canada media grants and you sure as hell don't get to attend the media scrums, press conferences or have access to our politicians. Yes, they control who gets to attend press confererences. So, ask a difficult question and you just may find your news agency "un-invited" to future press conferences, scrums and politician interviews. Ask Rebel News, if you don't believe me.
How do we regain trust in the Canadian government? I don't know, because the "lie machine" genie is out of the bottle. As Canadian's we don't fight back, like our American neighbours............and they know it.
https://nationalpost.com/feature/truths-about-why-politicians-lie
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On this day in history, in 1932 Dominion of Newfoundland: 10,000 rioters seize the Colonial Building leading to the end of self-government.
Today is First Contact Day and on the Pastafarian Calendar it's Pizza Day.
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Friday, March 29, 2024
Lygenztia *673 (Danger!...Danger!...............) March 29, 2024
Before reading this, I encourage you to watch this documentary. "The truth about killer robots"
Mankind is in the birth of artificial Intelligence, otherwise known by the acronym "A.I." Intriguing? Disturbing? Or just plain scary? I am not a luddite, but I am aware of the world around me and I think everyone else should be, too. To that end, I recently complete a course on artificial intelligence at the University of Michigan. I wanted to learn about this nebulous "A.I." thing. My thinking being, how can I get ahead of it and how can it help me?
Well, i've got news for you. Ain't nobody getting ahead of it, because it is moving faster than any of us can even imagine. No regulation, no oversight, no laws...it's the wild west.
Automated (self driving) trucks, taxis, delivery vehicles......they are all just around the corner. (pardon the pun) They are already here in North America actually, just in very small numbers, or "being tested". For now.
These are the current most in-demand jobs and fastest growing jobs in the USA:
Home health and personal care aides. (A.I. and robots will be able to do this)
Cooks at restaurants. (A.I. and robots will be able to do this)
Software developers. (A.I. and robots will be able to do this)
Fast food and counter workers. (A.I. and robots will be able to do this)
General and operations managers. (A.I. and robots will be able to do this)
Waiters and waitresses. (A.I. and robots will be able to do this)
Registered nurses.(see Moravec's paradox, below)
Labourers and freight, stock, and material movers. (A.I. and robots will be able to do this)
And, in many of the above, they already are. Reference Japan and China.
I don't mean to be all doom and gloom, because I think that opportunity will come with the increased presence of A.I. But, for unskilled workers, it is bleak. Hopefully Moravec's paradox proves true, because if not there will be little hope for the unskilled worker.
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On this day in history, in 1867, royal assent was given to the British North America Act. Ah, those Brit's (royals) and their colonialization.
Today is Good Friday and on the Pastafarian Calendar it's cocktail hour every hour day. Quite the contrast in terms.
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Friday, March 22, 2024
Lygenztia *672 (R.I.P...............) March 22, 2024
Death, is always a sad thing. It's not always tragic, sometimes it is merciful. Sometimes, it just "is".
I've never understood why we attach higher importance on death when the relative of a person of rank or higher position is involved. When the person who works in the warehouse or mailroom has a mother that passes away, those closest in that department rally around. But it just does not seem to garner the same proportion of attention as when the plant manager's mother passes away.
When that happens, a plant-wide collection is taken up, people are excused (and expected) to attend the funeral. Sympathy pours in. It just seems so skewed to me.
Now, of course this does not happen everytime, but for the most part this is the way things usually fall out. And, it is unfortunate.
I don't think any of this means we don't care. It just seems that we attach a higher importance based on the person's "status" .......or lack thereof.
Is it "kissing up", is it human nature? I don't know, you tell me....i'm listening.
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On this day in history, in 1958, Hank Williams Jr. made his stage debut at 8 years old. Otherwise known as "Bocephus".
Today is National Goof Off Day (for real) and on the Pastafarian Calendar it's Pretend to be be sober day. Both of these go hand in hand, nicely. Perhaps I shall imbibe, later.
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Saturday, March 9, 2024
Lygenztia *671 (Una mesa para 6 personas, por favor..............) March 8, 2024
If you are going out to eat or grab a few drinks and you can't get the table before everyone else arrives, you are socially incompetent.
Now, if I am going out with friends or relatives and I get there first (which is frequent when drinks are involved) I go in, get a table and get situated.
This has two effects:
1) It demonstrates that you are socially competent.
2) It shows the people you are meeting that you care about their comfort and look forward to seeing them.
It really grinds my gears when I arrive and there are people waiting in their vehicle. "Oh, we were waiting for you guys to get here before we got a table." Well, ain't that awesome. Now, there is a lovely line we have to wait in. Had they got the table when they arrived, nobody would have to wait, everyone would have been all set. This helps the ambiance, mood and conversation.
If I arrive and my friends/family have already got the table, I always make a point to thank them. "Hey, thanks for getting the table guys. That was very thoughtful." Now, everyone is smiling, happy and the tone is set.
Please, if you get there first just get the damn table.
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On this day in history, in 2014, Malaysia Flight 370....vanished. One of the craziest stories of my lifetime.
Today is National Proofreading Day and on the Pastafarian Calendar it's Annie Bonny's birthday.
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Friday, March 1, 2024
Lygenztia *670 (I've got some homework for you.....) March 1, 2024
I love learning, I love courses...I study self-interest courses through Coursera. Most of my learning is done at my own pace, on-line.
I'm all in.
At least until i'm in a class setting and I hear 'i've got some homework for you before our next class'. At that point I tune out the instructor completely. Its always the same, they look at you with that sly look and clever grin, then they hit you with it like they are oh so clever.
"Tonight, for your homework I want you to go home and write down one of your character traits that matches every letter of the alphabet and then compare them to the periodic table of elements." (Or, you could bite me?)
Hey Instructor/Teacher! Here's an idea....try putting the content within the curriculum. Try managing your time so you don't have to infringe on mine? Let's try that.
Now to be fair, i'm talking about adult learning. Of course the little urchins should have to drag textbooks home. But please, adults do not have time for "homework". We got shit going on, you know.
Keep it in the class, I'll stay engaged. Try to send it home....i'm out.
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On this day in history, Johnny Cash and June Carter were married– 1968
Today is National Sunkist Day and on the Pastafarian Calendar it's Narwhal day.
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Monday, February 26, 2024
Lygenztia *669 (Wastin' away again..........) February 23, 2024
Was recently in the Dominican Republic on vacation at "Margaritaville". (Fantastic resort, by the way) Met some great people, met some ahem....."different people" and had a great time with friends.
I've always been fascinated by the resort complainers. If you have ever travelled to a resort, you know the type. They turn their nose up at everything because they are too "high class" to eat the same food and drink the same libations as the commoner's. (Please, oh please, don't be one of these whiners.)
"Oh, the booze here is terrible, we can't find anything to drink." (The one that says this drinks "fancy" Bud Light at home.)
"Oh, the food here is terrible, we can't find anything to eat." (The one that says this is always overweight.)
"Oh, the rooms here are terrible."
If you go to a two star in Cuba, you will get a two star in Cuba. If you go to a 4 star in Jamaica, you will get a four star in Jamaica. Stop being pretentious to impress people that you don't even know. If your tastes are as exclusive as you claim, then go to Bora Bora with like minded persons.
Otherwise, sit back relax, have a drink and enjoy the resort. Just like everyone else is.
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On this day in history, First powered flight in Canada (by John Alexander Douglas McCurdy in Silver Dart) took place in Baddeck, Nova Scotia– 1909
Today is National Dog Biscuit Day and on the Pastafarian Calendar it's Beard Day.
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Friday, February 16, 2024
Lygenztia *668 (disagree to disagree.........) February 16, 2024
The world has lost all civility. People writ large have lost civility.
In the world we presently live in, you must pick a side, entrench your position, then bolster your position with some social media "research". No one will bend, no one will waiver. No matter how weak, illogical or non-sensical their argument actually is. Yep, their Aunt posted it on Facebook, ergo "fact".
That's the great paradox of social media. It has closely interconnected mankind and in doing so, it has torn us apart.
"Being kind" is nothing more than a cliche, anymore. Its just become a metaphor for "always agree with me". Evil is spreading in this world like a great sickness. Love is the cure, but I fear its too late.
Please, prove me wrong.
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On this day in history, a 250-hour, 3-minute, 20-second ice hockey marathon ended, Saiker’s Acres, Alberta– 2015
Today is National Tartar Sauce Day and on the Pastafarian Calendar it's Platypus Pondering Day. (Yesterday was Drink More Wine Day ah well, a day late and a dollar short.)
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Friday, February 2, 2024
Lygenztia *666 (Privacy....) February 2, 2024
Blog number 666 and I am discussing privacy and the internet. Coincidence? I think not............
The privacy ship has sailed. Algorithms rule the day, like it or not.
If you own any kind of device and do not live off the grid far away in the woods, you have no privacy.
Buy off amazon, or online? They have a profile on you, which is amazingly accurate.
Own a cell phone? Same.
Own a TV? Same.
Own a car? Same.
If you own anything at all that needs internet to function, they know all about you.
I get a kick out of guys that think they beat the system by using a fake name, or birth date. Yes, brilliant. Internet data miners never thought of that, did they! Your I.P. is stronger than your own fingerprint, it could even be argued your I.P. is even more descriptive of you than your DNA.
Your browsing history can be used to create a profile on you. Oh, but you have selected the "privacy option" eh? Ya, read the terms and conditions and let me know how that worked out for you. You can subscibe to a VPN service, but even on that I am skeptical.
If you think you have privacy, you are a fool. You are not smarter than "them" and "they" because believe me "they" know everything about you.
Unless you live in a remote cabin with no electricity (except solar), have never owned any kind of device, do not have a bank account and have never filed a tax return, have no government issued I.D., have never been on the internet...you have lost your privacy and you ain't getting it back. The genie is out of the bottle.
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On this day in history 20 mushers embarked on a journey to transport medicine to Nome, Alaska, inspiring the Iditarod Race. (1925)
Today is Groundhog Day on the Pastafarian Colander.
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Friday, January 26, 2024
Lygenztia *667 (Johnny Paycheck.........) February 9, 2024
Cheque? WTF is a cheque, who uses them and what the Hell for?
Cheques will be obsolete in our lifetime. There is a certain amount of absurdity of writing a check in a world dominated by contactless payments, e-transfers, etc. You know who still wants to pay by cheque? People that don't have any money, that's who. The cheque is a delay tactic until they can get money in their account.
If anyone under 75 years of age wants to pay you by cheque, they are a deadbeat. You've been warned.
Anyway, I gotta run...check, please.
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On this day in history, Canada expelled 13 Soviet diplomats for spying – 1978
Today is National Pizza Day and on the Pastafarian Calendar it's "Out An Alien Lizard" day. (Yesterday, was "Get Naked Day".)
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Lygenztia *665 (For the low price of 4.99 per month....) January 26, 2024
Subscription services have become so prolific it is easy to lose track of what you are actually subscribing to. And don't get me started on TV. Wanna watch Letterkenny? That's only on Crave, you'll need to subscribe. Wanna watch True Crime? That's only on Disney +, you'll need to subscribe. Wanna watch the World Junior Hockey Tournament? That's only on TSN, you will have to subscribe.
Off the top of my head, I can think of Bell Fibe, Rogers Fire, Crave, Netflix, Amazon Prime, TSN. Sportsnet, Disney +
It goes on, ad infinitum. And, that is just TV.
Apps? Oh ya....the "free trial", with "in app" purchase options later. Or, you can subscribe. It's only fair to pay people for their work but I do think some of it is gouging, I guess the market will ultimately decide.
Newspapers and periodicals have it figured out. They give you a sniff of an article....just a taste. Then, to read on you need to (you guessed it), subscribe. I see no issue with this, as back in the day, we paid for the actual tabloids and broadsheets at the news stand, or wherever you purchased your Sun or Star. (Anybody out there remember early morning delivery?)
Maybe we had it too good in the hey-day of the internet when everything was free and easily accessible. The content providers sure have tightened it up. But on the negative side, it appears the proliferation of free information is what has led to large scale lay offs in the print and media industry, writ large. And that is an unfortunate by-product of the information super highway.
And on that note, if you haven't already, wait until you get a load of ChatGPT (generative AI). Very interesting stuff and if you sign up, you don't have to pay to subscribe.............yet.
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On this day in history the Canadian Coast Guard was officially established (1962).
Today is Rumbellion Day on the Pastafarian Colendar.
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Friday, January 19, 2024
Lygenztia *664 (What do YOU think.........) January 19, 2024
It seems like everywhere you turn on the internet, or where you engage customer service, they want you to take a survey. You ordered some toilet paper, want to take a survey? Oh, we see you ordered some dish soap, will you take a survey? You called your bank to update your phone number? Yes, they want you to take a survey. And God help you if you sign up for any free service or app, because with those they make you do a survey as part of "accepting and understanding" the terms and conditions. You know the 29 page long proviso wherein you have unknowingly gifted your soul to Satan. But, that is another blog.
This tendency (or new normal) has made it into most retail locations as well. Ah yes, the bricks and mortar have caught on too. And, they want you to do a survey. You know the drill, you cash out, the clerk hands you a receipt and says 'chance to win a prize if you complete the survey.' Then, the clerk circles the survey website with a pen. Usually the prize is something most spectacular, like...his and hers pencil sharpeners, or a one years supply of toothpicks.
For my part, I do the surveys sometimes but only to mess with whomever is reading them and collating the data. I doubt it's a human, but at some point the synopsis is read by a sentient being of mortal coil. I give the most outrageous answers that the survey will allow to the point I hope I did not cause trauma to some poor analyst, somewhere.
For example:
Survey-How many times do you use our product, on average?
Response-I use it 44 times per day, I have horribly itchy crabs and STD's.
Survey-Have you tried any of our other products?
Response-Yes, I use the lavender lotion to smooth out my pubic hair in advance of my selfie photo shoots.
I could go on, but you get the idea.
And, if you enjoyed this blog, click here to do a quick survey.
Today is National Popcorn Day. On January 19th, everyone is encouraged to eat popcorn.
#eatpopcorn
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Friday, January 12, 2024
Lygenztia *663 (It's a little known fact, Norm....) January 12, 2024
While cell phones may champion the "truth" (because everything on the net is true, right????) they actually destroyed debate and conversation in two distinct ways.
Back in the day we would sit at the pub and "shoot the shit". Almost everyone did this because we did not have a phone to stare at. The nature of social discourse has completely changed in pubs, actually everywhere.
Cell phones changed banter in two ways. They created "experts" and "fact checkers", the expert by far being the most annoying. Let me explain....in the pub there are two people that are familiar with a topic enagaging in a conversation. The "expert" says nothing as the others talk, googles the topic and then chimes in with a fact on a topic they nothing about. Voila! "Instant expert"! (and asshole). Here's an idea, if you know nothing about a topic, try listening.
Next up, is the "fact checker". Ugh, just awful human beings. The fact checker googles every point a person makes, looking for some obscure factoid to counter or correct the other person. They do this out of a sense of insecurity and the need to feel superior to others. I have a newsflash for the fact checker, any idiot can go on a cell phone to look something up. It only requires your ability to manipulate your device, much in the same way they are trying to manipulate the conversation. People will naturally avoid the fact checker and generally will remove them from the conversation, somehow. When you think of the fact checker, think of Cliff Clavin with a cell phone.
So, don't be either. Look at someone, talk to them. Listen actively. And when both of you don't know the answer then look it up and come up with it together. Otherwise, you're a Cliff Clavin.
Today is KISS A GINGER DAY On January 12th, everyone is encouraged to find their favorite redhead and give them a peck on Kiss a Ginger Day.
#KissAGingerDay
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Saturday, January 6, 2024
Lygenztia *662 (Could anything be more perfect than a dog...........) January 7, 2024
Who was the first person to become companion to a dog? Of course, we will never know. There are historical examples dating back about 14,220 years ago. Even more amazingly, they even named the breed as a "Bonn-Oberkassel".
Humans keep other animals as pets, but none match the companionship of a dog. Cat lovers, full stop. I am not a hater, but you cannot compare the two. Sure some breeds, like the Maine Coon Cat are "dog-like" but a dog..... they are not. I know of no stories where a cat has sat for weeks beside an injured owner, protected a child from an attempted abduction, searched earthquake disaster zones for survivors. I do know of stories where cas have eaten their owner, after the owner met an untimely demise. Humans own dogs, cats own humans. I could go on, I won't. This is about dogs...God's most perfect creation in the animal kingdom. (Ever noticed the backwards spelling of God?)
When you have had bad day, who is waiting for you at the door? When you are watching tv who wants to lay with you? When you are walking who wants to walk with you? When you are sick, they know and stay close to you. You could be the worst asshole in the world, hated by all, but your dog loves you. Have you ever seen what happens when a loud or agressive stranger approaches a child and their dog is near? Let me know how that worked out for the guy.
You can teach your dog almost anything. The sky is the limit, you just have to spend the time and exert the effort. (By the way, if you have a dog that "doesn't listen" that just means the dog is smarter than you. Think about it.) Dogs can also teach us many things. Unconditional love, responsibility, patience and loyalty to name just a few. Bill Murray once said “I'm suspicious of people who don't like dogs, but I trust a dog when it doesn't like a person.” Apparently, the eclectic funny guy is also a wise man.
Finally, the level to which a dog becomes a member of the household/family is beyond compare. A dog wants to be involved with everything the family does and the dog is fully aware that they are part of the family. Of that, I am certain. Playfully spray your kids with the hose and the dog wants in on it. Shovel the driveway and he is right there, taking it all in. Do some gardening and they watch. Play soccer with the kids and the dog is after the ball, too. And on the other end of it, the bond between an elderly person and their dog is one of the most beautiful things you could ever see.
I don't know who was the first person to take up companionship with a dog. But from the bottom of our collective hearts, dog owners world wide thank you.
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Lygenztia *661 (Anyone hear a banjo...........) January 6, 2024
Happy New Year!
When you are seeking to become part of the community, is it easier to do so in a city or a small town? Maybe you have moved from a town to a city, or a city to a town. Both have their unique challenges.
It's been said you can get lost in a city, but I also think you can become isolated in a small town. When you first come to the city meeting people of like mind can be a challenge as people in cities are wary of strangers. Ironically, when you first come to a town people are wary of strangers.
There are two unqiue mindsets, newcomers to a city are viewed as "I wonder why they came here?". In the town it's "What are they doing here?" ( I can speak from experience.) Townfolk are warm and charming initially, until you join their institutions/organizations, then they become suspicious. 'It's a takeover I tell ya!' This is all perfetly normal, we all seek to protect what we love and our way of life. In the city, every insitution/organization can use help so the opposite is true. Volunteer to help and the next thing you know you are a member of the board.
So, they key? I think in a city you have to move quickly, unless you want to just "exist". The city will not "bring you in." Conversely, in a town, you have to move slowly so as not to unnecessarily alarm or concern people. They bring you in eventually.
Either way, being part of the community as opposed to just being in a community is up to you.
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